NEWSLETTER January 2004

Hamilton Monthly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends (Quakers)

7 Butty Place
Hamilton, Ontario L8S 2R5
www.quaker.ca/hamilton
quakers@hwcn.org
Telephone: 905.523.8383

Point to Ponder

Submitted by Helen Brink

  I asked for knowledge - power to control things;
     I was granted understanding, to learn to love persons.

  I asked for strength, to be a great man; 
     I was made weak, to become a better man.

  I asked for wealth, to make friends;
     I became poor, to keep friends.

  I asked for all things, to enjoy life;
     I was granted all life, to enjoy things.

  I cried for pity;
     I was offered sympathy.

  I craved for healing of my own disorders;
     I received insight into another's suffering.

  I prayed to God for safety- to tread the trodden path;
     I was granted danger, to lose track and find the Way.

  I got nothing that I prayed for;
     I am, among all men, richly blessed.

  Anonymous: quoted by Mark Tully in "Something Understood"  

Dates to Remember

 

Coffee List

25 January  Andy
1 February  Harriet
8 February  Helen B
15 February  Dick
22 February  Susan

Painting Bee at the MeetingHouse

Saturday, January 31st,  9 am - 4 pm

Come join us to spruce up the meetinghouse. Bring your well labeled painting equipment, ladders, rags and old clothes. Jobs can be found for those not wanting to paint and for all energy levels.

Potluck lunch at noon!

Bring your good humour and let's have a fun working together. Letting one of us know is helpful but not essential. Betty Flynn, Louise Trepanier & Betty Preston

First Day School Tobogganing

Assuming we have enough snow, the First Day School will be tobogganing on the first Sunday in February. We will be tobogganing at the Burlington municipal golf course on Tyandaga Park Drive (in Burlington). We will meet at Siân Baker's house at 10:45. Bring your sled if you have one, but we will happily share. There will be hot chocolate and cookies after at Siân's. All Friends are welcome to join us. For further information please contact Siân.

 

Meeting for Worship for Business

Minutes of the Meeting for Worship for Business of 8 January 2004 can be found
here or on the newsletter page.

Book Review

Submitted by Kelly Graham

  Title: Quaker Indictment
Author: Irene Allen

  Elderly Quaker Elizabeth Elliot goes to visit a friend in central Washington State. Her friend Reba, is convinced that the whole region is contaminated with radioactive waste from the Hanford nuclear plant. Together Elizabeth and Reba set out to gather evidence, but when Reba gets caught on Hanford property, she gets taken in. Later that night, she is found dead. Murdered on her front lawn. Elizabeth's Quaker beliefs are put to the test as she along with Reba's friend Meghan, tries to uncover the truth about the murder, and the truth about Hanford.

  I enjoyed this book, though I think it was written for adults and older teens. Kids may have a hard time reading it, because of the sophisticated vocabulary. The reader, though probably not aware of it, learns a lot about Quakerism and the testimonies through Elizabeth's actions and thoughts, the book doesn't preach but gives the reader an example of a devout Quaker to learn from. Elizabeth's Quaker values are tried when Meghan decided to carry a gun for their safety against the people of Hanford, as there had been attempts on their lives before. Elizabeth was against this, but at the end she agreed, as long as it was only for defending themselves. I would definitely recommend this book, as it is very interesting, gripping and exciting all the way through. I would not recommend it though to people who hate mysteries, because this book keeps you guessing about the murderer right up to the final chapters!

  You can find this book, along with two other Irene Allen mysteries, Quaker Witness and Quaker Testimony in the meeting library!

 

Report on Peace and Social Action Committee Work in 2003

Submitted by Dick Preston

  We have been concerned for two years now over the prospects for the continuation of the work done for many years by Hannah and Allen Newcomb, with their Peace Research Institute Dundas (PRID). Hannah is contemplating retirement, and asked for a Committee of Clearness. Subsequently, PSAC has taken this concern on, in addition to the Clearness Committee. We did not have among us, or find anyone prepared to take on the work of PRID, and felt that we needed expert assistance to find a future option. Irene Seay was asked to take this on, and has dedicated herself to the project with considerable success. Cautious optimism seems justified at this point. Since Irene had been without employment for some time, PSAC was in unity that we allocate the $1000 of our donation budget to PRID, to pay Irene.

  The HMM Ottawa Peace Delegation return visit has been tentatively arranged for some day in February 2004, which is agreeable to Stephanie Power at DFAIT. At Hannah's urging, our focus this time will be on Canada's support of the UN work on the topic of the report by the International Commission on Intervention and State Sovereignty "The Responsibility to Protect." In January we will announce a brown bag at HMM for seeking more participation in this by HMM. During our December meeting, Irene offered to be one of the delegates and PSAC approved this. More recently Mona Aziz-Zamisa, an attender of HMM, has asked Dick to be included.

  We have held a monthly discussion group at the Meeting House. For several evenings, we discussed the book The Emotional Life of Nations. For our next meeting, Ray has prepared a discussion document. He also drafted a document that we sent as a response to Rachel Brett of the Quaker United Nations Office. Ray also reported for the Culture of Peace folks that a first grant of $50,000 has been received for the Hamilton Safe Haven project, and a staff person has been hired.

  Insulating the Meeting House was brought as a concern to PSAC by Helen Brink, and at the end of some rather rushed communications, HMM has received a grant of $11,000 from the Rogers Trust, and Helen is making arrangements with a contractor.

  In response to Chuck Fager's fine talk last month at the Meeting House, on how Friends can take on more effective long-term peace ministry, Ray circulated his notes, and Dick circulated Chuck's written version. We think there is excellent guidance there.

  Tam is working on our initiatives to become known to newly elected politicians in the Hamilton area, including a letter explaining our request for a visit to new MPP Judy Marsales.

  There are many other items on our agenda, including three ongoing and probably long-term concerns:

 

An Extended Peace Presence for Canada

Submitted by Bev Shepard

  Dear Friends,

  Please read this and think about it before our next Meeting for Worship for Business, when it will be on the agenda.

  After first seasoning at the St. Lawrence Regional Gathering, and further discussion at the last CFSC Meeting in Toronto, the following statement is being presented to several Monthly Meetings, asking them to consider supporting it.  It was asked by CFSC that the four MMs comprising St Lawrence Regional Gathering each consider supporting this proposal.  The proposal is also being considered by Yonge Street MM because Gord Thompson from that meeting was at Regional Gathering and shares his energy in seeing this go forward.  I was at that Gathering too and am excited by the idea that we could start making some positive differences along these lines.

  The following  grew from a discussion group on supporting the United Nations, led by David Jackman and Murray Thomson.   Gord and I were both in that group.

  Quakers would like to join with other faith groups and NGOs across the country to build an extended peace presence for Canada.  This might take several forms:

  What is needed first is to build a strong support base for such ideas, ensuring we have support among Quakers before reaching out to the broader community.

  When this was discussed at CFSC Peace and National Concerns committee, there was the suggestion to take this from CFSC/CYM to KAIROS, as they were discussing something similar.  This could bring in other churches, and then proceed to NGOs.

  Sybil Grace of Ottawa says:  "Don Alexander, Bev Shepard. Caroline Parry, David Jackman, Gord Thompson, Jenny Wright, Margaret Slavin, Murray Thomson, Rose Mae Harkness, and Sue Hill... all expressed interest at regional gathering with strong input from Don Alexander in St Catharines, Bev Shepard in Hamilton, Gord Thompson of Yonge St MM. Jenny Wright of Thousand Islands MM and Margaret Slavin of Peterborough came in later.   From Ottawa MM, David Jackman mc'd, Murray instigated the discussion, Caroline, Rose Mae, Sue and myself were all interested. Gord Thompson is committed to seeing the process go forward and is the pivot of a listserve."

  HMM is being asked by CFSC through Sybil and me to support the statement that we need a stronger peace presence by Quakers in Canada as exemplified in the suggestions given; I am asking Hamilton Friends to consider getting involved in a revival of the Mothers' Day Peace Walk.

 

The Origins of Mother's Day

  Many people don't know that Mother's Day was started after the Civil War, as a protest against the carnage of that war, by women who had lost their sons. Here is the original Mother's Day Proclamation from 1870:  
Arise, then, women of this day! Arise all women who have hearts, whether our baptism be that of water or of fears! Say firmly: "We will not have great questions decided by irrelevant agencies. Our husbands shall not come to us, reeking with carnage, for caresses and applause. Our sons shall not be taken from us to unlearn all that we have been able to teach them of charity, mercy and patience. We women of one country will be too tender of those of another country to allow our sons to be trained to injure theirs. From the bosom of the devastated earth, a voice goes up with our own. It says "Disarm, Disarm! The sword of murder is not the balance of justice."

  Blood does not wipe our dishonor nor violence indicate possession. As men have often forsaken the plow and the anvil at the summons of war, let women now leave all that may be left of home for a great and earnest day of counsel. Let them meet first, as women, to bewail and commemorate the dead.  Let them then solemnly take counsel with each other as to the means whereby the great human family can live in peace, each bearing after their own time the sacred impress, not of Caesar, but of God. In the name of womanhood and of humanity, I earnestly ask that a general congress of women without limit of nationality may be appointed and held at some place deemed most convenient and at the earliest period consistent with its objects, to promote the alliance of the different nationalities, the amicable settlement of international questions, the great and general interests of peace.

  Julia Ward Howe
Boston
1870

Request for Donated Books for Library

Submitted by Ian Graham

  With the help of a core collection list from the Cadbury Library of Philadelphia YM, we have a good start of additions to our library. Here are 34 titles we don't have, all published in the 1990s, which are highly recommended for a Meetinghouse library. (see spreadsheet attached). If you have any of these and would like to donate them to HMM, please see Ian G. or send me an email at igraham6@cogeco.ca.

We can give a tax receipt for the fair market value of these books, based on used book prices on the internet. It would help a lot if you can check the price for your donations, using www.bookfinder.org.   A gift plate will be attached to each book, unless you prefer otherwise.  

"Prayer from the heart can achieve what nothing else can in the world." -- Mahatma Gandhi